As well as a good wedding planner buy a paper based organiser
Discuss the style of the wedding and the budget with your fiancé and all parents
Interview wedding consultants, advisors and coordinators
Speak with all your friends - pick their brains - learn who knows what and who knows who
Speak to your clergy - ask questions
Begin looking for locations - wedding ceremony - wedding reception - other planned events
Begin interviewing Caterers, Photographers, Florists, Videographers, Musicians
By end of Month 12 select three of your key players: advisor/consultant - caterer and wedding photographer
By end of Month 11 select site for the wedding ceremony
By end of Month 10 select site for the wedding reception
By end of Month 10 select the remaining key players; florist, musicians, videographer

7 to 9 months prior

Select all of your guests and compile your list
By end of Month 8 shop for and order wedding invitations and announcements
Contact and visit clergy or minister
Begin shopping for appropriate wedding dresses, you will probably need to book appointments at wedding outlets
Register with well known wedding gift registry service
Begin looking at honeymoon options with your fiancé - visit a travel agency and research appropriate locations using the internet or magazines - check on your passports when planning your trip
By the end of Month 8 decide on your wedding menu

4 to 6 months prior

Finish guest list and send out all wedding invitations
Begin review of details
Finalise honeymoon plans with fiancé and book
Finalise music selection for wedding and reception
By end of Month 5 shop and order the mens' formal wear. It is popular for Grooms to hire their wedding outfit, whereas wedding dress hire only accounts for a small percentage
Book wedding transportation - limousines, horse-drawn carriages, hot air balloons, boat, or whatever

Order the wedding rings!!
Shop till you drop
Wedding Lingerie
Honeymoon Clothes
Guests' gifts
Pre and post-wedding party clothes you might need
Finalise catering, floral arrangements (be a little flexible)
Select all presents for your wedding gift list
Reserve a block of rooms for your out-of-town guests (good work for your fiancé)
Finalise arrangements for any rental items you may need
Candelabra & other silver pieces
Special decorative screens & archways
Special lighting (particularly if part of the event will be outside or in an unique area where normal lighting may not be possible)
Make appointment with your hairdresser (a trial run for next month - also good for your bridal portrait)
Make appointment with your hairdresser (final)
Make appointment for your nails (hands and feet)
Make appointment with a makeup artist for the day of your bridal portrait

Final fittings
Plan the bridesmaids' party & confirm the location & instructions
Reconfirm rehearsal events
For your own peace of mind personally touch base with every key professional you and/or your coordinator have working on all your upcoming events
By Week 4 Pick Up Wedding Rings
Reconfirm honeymoon reservations and (if leaving the country go to the bank and exchange at least £100 into foreign currency)
Submit request lists to your musicians, photographer and videographer
Confirm all transportation for all events (including honeymoon)
By the last day of Week 2 plan a day to be alone with your family

On the very first day of the very last week begin packing for your honeymoon
Check final details with all your wedding professionals - early in the week
Give final guest count to the caterer
Create a wedding day schedule with your fiancé
Remind wedding party men to pick up tuxedos
Finish packing for your honeymoon
Schedule the day prior to the wedding as a free day - and a day to visit with a few close friends

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